Thoughts and discussion—more
My biggest goal/concern for the day was further
exploration of Intensity is our Friend and helping Try get over being emotional
when things get more intense.
1. What
prevents me from doing this? Why do I choose good enough and quit too soon? I
can stick to something book learning, dance, physical fitness, LBI great so why
not with Try. Dan says and I agree the reason is my RBE desire to avoid
conflict and have Try like me!!!!!!!!!! But this creates the codependence—see above.
2. A
thought: although Try may be a difficult LBI as far as I am concerned the worst
thing she ever did was wonderful. She is truly my choice of the best horse for
me. I feel so safe with her.
3. Finding
the emotional so we can play with it: if it doesn’t happen from my inner energy
its ok to use my extraversion.
4. Upping
phases—I can see that I need to use this but use it well. Catch the moment and
be fair and use phase that matters to Try. If too consistent with phases Try
will tune it out.
5. Also
with phases need to push buttons to get some emotion from Try to have something
to play with.
6. I
asked how to id LBE in Try as I think I only see RBE. Well, if Try goes RBE and
then relaxes but still has heightened energy then that can be LBE. Also fine
line between LBE that is a little unconfident and RBE that is fairly relaxed.
7.
Good
enough is no longer good enough.
8. Call
Neil Pye
9. GoC—I
don’t care about contact with Try’s mouth at this time and maybe never.
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